Expanding your awareness and raising your consciousness, begins with acceptance and forgiveness.
As long as we continue holding onto grudges in our lives, we stay trapped in feeling disempowered and negative, which not only keeps us playing small, it is an extremely toxic way to live.
Loving relationships are important to our health. The psycho neuro immune response is essential for us to be healthy. Doctors know that a fight with your spouse can raise your inflammatory cytokines for up to three days. Cytokines are regulators of host responses to infection, immune responses, inflammation, and trauma. Some cytokines act to make disease worse (pro-inflammatory cytokines), whereas others serve to reduce inflammation and promote healing (anti-inflammatory cytokines).
Forgiving and accepting are empowering emotions. Unless you are going to hole yourself up in your house or apartment for the rest of your life, isolating yourself from all of the people out there you might encounter, two of the most important things you can learn to do is forgive and accept.
Of course forgiving is easy, until it’s time to forgive. Sometimes it is just really hard to let go and forgive, so we get stuck. When you are not ready to forgive, but you know you should, ask your higher power to do it for you. Ask God, ask the universe, ask your creator. Ask whatever divine source you connect with to forgive on your behalf.
Here’s the wheel, there’s too much turbulence right now. Take over and forgive this person for me.
This act stops you from shaming and guilting yourself for not forgiving and detaches you from the situation, allowing you room to let go.
Letting go can feel like a resurrection of sorts, like you are reborn.
Forgiveness doesn’t mean forgetting or excusing the harm done to you or making up with the person who caused the harm. Forgiveness brings a kind of peace that helps you go on with life.
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