There are a multitude of ways that you can show up for your life each day.
You can resign to your life and continue to adapt to your current conditions, no matter how unsuitable they may be. You can move through your day with resignation. You have a choice you know, you can show up as the victim, if that is what you want to be.
Or you can be fierce and fiery and self-righteous as you attempt to muscle your way through your day. As you make big attempts to control every aspect of your life; white knuckling your way through the day with worry and fear.
Or you can gently mold and shape your conditions to fit your current needs while using the tools that God has given us. The tools of free will, reasoning and intuition. You can do this by remaining calm and empty of your ego and co-creating with the spirit of God in your heart.